How do i get my hubby to buy me flowers?

i want flowers. we've been together almost 4 years and he has never bought me flowers. i told him i want flowers but he never buys me any why

How do i get my hubby to buy me flowers?
Forget him and order them yourself.


Make sure he has to pay!!!
Reply:Just start buying yourself flowers. Put a nice pretty arrangement in the middle of the dinner table.
Reply:Because they only bring flowers home when they've done something wrong! This is a good sign!
Reply:I have no idea, my husband was just like your and i made a joke about him never buying me any flowers and now i can't get him to stop. He will buy me a boque and say" just because it's monday".





Order yourself some roses and get them sent to your house saying it's from a secret admirer while he is their and see what he does, maybe he'll start buying them for you then..
Reply:forget the flowers, you should be thankful you have a man who buys you things
Reply:What worked for me, because my man was a serious romance dud at first, was this......





I sat down with him, when we were both in good moods and I wouln't have "a tone" and explained to him that romance was imporant to me. I told him that although he didn't see the value in spending money on something that was just going to die in 4-5 days...the joy that I got in those 4-5 days was worth every penny and even more. I told him how girls were different from guys in that they need the romance factor to keep their love and passion fires burning.





***** Here's a challenge: Tell him that you want flowers...tell him that if he will surprize you with flowers one day in the next week, that you will give him something special in the bedroom.....something to make his little head spin...





Trust me, you don't have to be kinky for this to work....if you've never had flowers, and you suddenly get them, you will be so fired up you will want to mount him in a heartbeat. This worked like a charm with me and my man...Now he knows that when he brings me flowers, it is a DEFINATE that he will be a happy man by lights out.





Sex is always the best way to lure a man to do what you want.





If this doesn't work...you need to buy the book "The Five Love Language" to find out what is missing in HIS part of the passion category. Sometimes if he's not happy, he won't be able to think of your happiness. It will also be a good book for helping you to uderstand what YOU truly ned to feel happy in your relationship.





GOD BLESS and GOOD LUCK!
Reply:My husband only buys me flowers on Valentine's Day. Other than that, he says it's a waste of money to buy dead plants. I can't get him to change his mind. So, I buy my own flowers.
Reply:First of all, why is it so important for you to get flowers? Is he a good man in all other ways? Does he work hard and provide for you? Is he good to you and the kids? Does he show respect to you overall? Then don't sweat the flowers. Do you really want flowers from him, if you have to ASK for them? It wouldn't be really from him! He'd be doing it because you asked for it! Does he ever get you a card or something for special occasions? Don't make a big deal about this. Because it's really not! He may be showing you he loves you in other subtle ways, but you're not seeing it because it's not FLOWERS.
Reply:Awww, I understand where you coming from. I was with this guy for almost 2 years and he never brought me flowers. Even I mentioned millions times that I LOVE flowers, still didn’t get me anything. He was good at giving me materials things- mp3, laptop, etc…. which I really appreciated. But I’m still a simple and very tradition girl and I wanted romance which he couldn’t give me. I told him be affections to me and he still didn’t do it. Don’t give me wrong, he wasn’t bad to me either…. It was just that, He wasn’t that “kind of guy”… he didn’t know anything about being romantic and I couldn’t blame him. I’ve tried to teach him, but he didn’t just get my point. Long story short…. I broke up with him…. Funny thing was he finally gave me flower on my birthday, but we weren’t together anymore. Yikes!!!!





I didn't break up with him because of that "flowers" reason. I broke up with him because I reliazed that he wasn't the guy that I wanted to spend my life with and I didn't want to waste both of our times anymore for something that I know I couldn't live with. And I wasn't about to change him just for own my please.





I love romance... always have, always will--- now I am happily married and have a wonderful husband that just know what to do and what to say without me telling him about it.





You have to accept him for he is or move on. Not exactly what you want to hear, but that’s the fact.
Reply:put notes in his lunch box that say I would Love so flower from my love. make lots of copy's and place them all over the house in his under-ware dower and where ever he hangs out. Good luck this is what i had to do to get my wife to do some thing special for me.
Reply:i have no clue why, my husband has only bought me flowers once (without being in trouble) - he says it's just not on his mind to do





generally, i would worry what he did wrong if flowers showed up in my house for no reason.
Reply:I'm still waiting as well. Been w/hubby about 3 yrs. He brought me flowers once (he'd bought at walmart or something) but we were still new (dating) and he was in the doghouse. I'd love to be surprised one day for absolutely no reason. But I know it's far fetched. B/c MY hubby isn't thoughtful. Is that the case w/yours???
Reply:If he wont buy them then go and buy some for yourself:) If he buys you flowers it should be because he wants to and that it comes from his heart and that is what matters. Has he bought you other nice things then just flowers? Do not beg or force him to because then it wont be out of love and from his heart.
Reply:Some men just don't get it especially younger ones. Explain to him that women need to know they are special once in a while and the way feel that way is through telling you how nice you look once in a while, surprising them with FLOWERS(and stress the word flowers by saying it twice), holding them without being asked, and just holding hands(out in public) to show they are proud to be with you. Remind him that to get special treatment requires that he offers special treatment in return. If he asks what you're talking about getting special treatment from you - tell him to use his imagination and grin at him. He's not that stupid - he will understand what you mean. Then use your creative mind and come up with some special ways you can show him what that grin meant when the flowers, compliments, and everything else you requested start to come. If he's not retarded you will see a change in him right away.
Reply:He learned from his father? Try asking his mother. maybe she can give you some insight why he doesn't. Is he romantic in other ways? Is he comfortable enough to walk in a lingerie department and pick that special "you know" just for him %26amp; you? Will he go with you to those "How to put the Romance back in your life" classes you can find on learning periodicals? If you really get "fed up" just snagg his credit card and buy them on his dime. (is he cheap?). Get that oh so lovely vase while your at it , set it up with a nice bottle of petite syrah and two lovely glasses with a romantic card signed, "For my loving Wife, Thank you for being You and Making me a better man! "( maybe he's allergic?) Good luck!
Reply:Well then get your own,when he asked say who they from say me 2 me,Or if he has a sense of humor you could thank him for the flowers,when he says i didn't sent them. You say didn't you?You payed for them.Let him see how much you enjoy them .If that doesn't work than there no hope. Just my thought.
Reply:He doesn't buy them for you because obviously with your demanding them you don't deserve them. Besides did you only marry him to get flowers?
Reply:Don't ask him anymore to buy you flowers......start spoiling yourself. Learn to love yourself. Then it won't matter what He is or isn't doing for you.
Reply:I tell my fiance that my vase is empty.. and it works... good luck!
Reply:Well ive been married for 3 years and my husband doesnt buy me flowers all the time...only like on valentines, my b-day or mothers day. If you push the fact that you want flowers all the time then he really wouldnt be doing it out of love but just so you would be quiet. That really isnt meaningful. Maybe he would rather do other nice things for you. You cant get him to buy you flowers....if he does they are just "shut-up and leave me alone about the flowers already." flowers