Friday, May 21, 2010

First date; Should I buy her flowers? What Kind? what color? when should I give her them?

Please note this is a girl I have known for a long time and been looking to ask her out for as long!

First date; Should I buy her flowers? What Kind? what color? when should I give her them?
Go with living flowers.





It'll be better than dead ones.
Reply:White roses. Arrive for the date with them and give them to her when you greet her.





If you want to do the really old fashioned 'wow 'em', bring a box of chocolates too. If she's young enough to live with her folks, the chocolates are for her mom...
Reply:Pink roses
Reply:no. u dont buy flowers.


open doors, but dont do it so noticeably. just walk infront of her and act likeur opening it for u because u were in front but let her go first.





dont give them to her either, it shows her that ur trying to impress her


dating is like a second language man. we guys know the words, but dont know wut the **** they mean. Women know wut they mean.


learn the language man. the sooner the better.
Reply:I was going to say pass on the flowers but if you known her for awhile, do so. That'll show your interested and you've had some feelings. Red roses are nice and give them to her when you pick her up at her doorstep.





Good luck.
Reply:NO FLOWERS! You look like a dummy with them, and they never last very long.. spend those $20 bucks pampering her, women love being pampered :P, well okay, maybe a teddy bear! since they never die. and you look sweet with them, and girls love teddy bears! or chocolates.. mmmm!
Reply:buy blue carnations, or a mix of blues and whites. Something kute but not too expensive.
Reply:Buy her Roses, the yellow ones are for Friendship....Give them to her as soon as you see her, if you are picking her up from her place....
Reply:Yes, just seeing her give an honest smile and present her flowers with wishes, and don't forget that your words should have a lot of care and respect for her. all the best, friend.
Reply:Sure, Not any thing to expensive but nice. A pretty mix for her to put into a vase. Give them to her when you pick her up.
Reply:Honestly a big bunch of flowers isnt really a great idea for a first date ...maybe on another date....


I have received a single rose on one first date and a fake tulip on another which even tho most people would think he was a cheap skate i thought it was a nice gesture without putting pressure on things .Even tho we arnt together I still have this flower and everytime i see it it reminds me of the lovely night i had and yes his face too
Reply:if youre going to get her flowers that arent roses, then they should be unique ones. not carnations. red tipped yellow roses signify friendship turning into love or something like that right? theres a website i saw ones that explains what each type of rose represents....but flowers in anyway are a nice gesture.
Reply:Flowers are nice, but something other than roses. I love any type of lilies, but that's me. Or just a mixed bouquet. Don't get anything too big, and make sure she has a vase to put them in. But don't go overboard. It looks like you are trying to hard. But a simple gesture is appreciated. And give them to her when she first opens the door when you pick her up. Have her leave them at home, so she doesn't have to carry them around all night.
Reply:u can buy sweet chocalate,roses,%26amp;any prize








GOOOOD LUCKKK!
Reply:I think just one rose is really nice. If you buy more then it appears you are trying to buy her. Don't leave that impression. if you continue dating then find out what her favorite flowers are and send them to her in a month or so. Girls love surprises.
Reply:Just take her to a pond with some bread, it will offer an intimate encounter but keep it casual enough to make sure there isnt any awkward moments...
Reply:Ooh how sweet:) ok first find out what her favorite flower is(from a friend maybe) if you don't know or don't want to ask then you can't go wrong with red roses, and you should give them to her at her door if you pick her up if not just as soon as you see her! Good luck and congratulations!!
Reply:I've been a florist for a long time. Guys often come in and want "casual" flowers for a date that are understated and don't imply: "the next gift is a ring".





Bright colors are fun and cheerful. They say "let's have some fun". Gerbera daisies are perfect for this and they're one of the MOST popular flowers around. Six of assorted colors in clear wrap with a simple tie will do wonders... make sure you ask for them to be in water vials to stay fresh.





A small clutch of totally mixed blooms will work as well. You could include some unusual flowers, but NO ROSES.





Give them to her when you first see her, so it won't seem as though you are hiding them -- saving them for a bigger surprise...





Don't make a really big deal over them. They say enough on their own.





Have fun!
Reply:Assorted bouquet. Trust me! It sends a message and sets a tone yet is subtle and doesn't scream I love you!
Reply:Whatever you do not buy roses....Roses mean Love and its your first date...I think you would scare her off.....Try and buy flowers that symbolize the season...It's winter so i'm sure there are florists who can recommend you a certain selection.
Reply:No, no, no. First date flowers = hella creepy. Save it for later.
Reply:you go to get her for the date...you knock with the DAISIES (not too meaningful pretty and not too pushy-white or yellow something suttle) anyways have them behind your back and be like hey! I got these for you! andt ehn thats it!
Reply:A single pink rose.
Reply:Give them to her when you pick her up and make them simple, colourful and feminine with some fragrant ones if poss.
Reply:prob not...might scare her off...just go on ur date and pay for everythin no matter what she says!!!
Reply:Sure! They do respect flowers.A mix of some type,just not red roses.Those signify serious love.Give them to her when she meets you at the door.
Reply:How sweet!!! I don't know what the norm is but maybe so it is not like you are to over board try a small bouquet of her favorite color or really fragrant ones but just a small simple one. Good Luck
Reply:take her to macdonalds, after that anything will be fine with her


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